Transcript Chapter 3 - School District of Grafton

Chapter 3
What Is Communication?
Successful communication is at the root of healthy
relationships.
communication The clear exchange of ideas and
information
relationship A connection you have with another
person or group
What Is Communication?
Person
Messages
Person
Different Ways to Communicate
The main way people communicate is through language.
Another way to communicate is through body language.
body language Facial expressions, eye contact,
gestures, and posture
Different Ways to Communicate
Different ways to communicate include:
 Face-to-face
 Telephone
 Written messages
 E-mail
 Text messaging
 Sign language
Safety Online
Make sure that a parent or guardian gives you permission
to communicate with others online.
Never give out information about yourself or your family.
Stay out of unsupervised chat rooms.
Never agree to meet anyone in person.
If an online conversation makes you feel uncomfortable,
exit and tell a parent or other adult.
Different Ways to Communicate
There are advantages and disadvantages to different
kinds of communication.
When talking on the telephone or sending e-mail,
visual clues such as facial expressions are absent.
Using Good Communication Skills
Outbound (“Sending”)
Inbound (“Receiving”)
 Think, then speak
 Listen actively
 Use “I” messages
 Ask questions
 Make clear, simple statements
 Mirror thoughts and feelings
 Be honest with your thoughts
and feelings
 Use appropriate body language
 Use appropriate body language
 Wait your turn
Communication Styles
 An aggressive communicator might say
something rude.
 A shy (passive) communicator may say nothing
at all.
 An assertive communicator isn’t shy or
aggressive about expressing him or herself.
Lesson 3
Friendships
Who Are Your Friends?
A friendship is an important
relationship.
friendship A special type of
relationship between
people who enjoy being
together
Who Are Your Friends?
Tips for Making Friends
Get to know
yourself
Break the
ice
Join a club
or group
Offer a
helping hand
Character Traits of Good Friends
Good friends have the following character traits:
Reliable
reliable Dependable
Loyal
loyal Faithful
Empathy
empathy The ability to identify and
share another person’s feelings
Building Strong Friendships
You can build stronger friendships through
cooperation.
cooperation Working together for the common good
Another way of making friendships stronger is
through mutual respect and support.
Peer Pressure
Peers can give you support and confidence during
your transition to adulthood.
peers Friends and other people in your age group
Positive Peer Pressure
Positive peer pressure can influence healthful
choices and inspire you to improve yourself or do
something worthwhile.
peer pressure The influence that people your age
may have on you
Positive Peer Pressure
Positive peer pressure can inspire you to improve
yourself or do something worthwhile.
Inspiring you to improve your health and
appearance, or to perform well on a team, are ways
to be positive influences.
Negative Peer Pressure
Daring someone to behave in a dangerous or illegal
way is an example of negative peer pressure.
A challenge to go against your beliefs or values is
another example of negative peer pressure.
Lesson 4
Refusal Skills
What Are Refusal Skills?
When peer pressure builds, use refusal skills to
avoid potentially harmful situations.
refusal skills Ways of saying no
What Are Refusal Skills?
s
T
O
P
Say no in a firm voice.
Tell why not.
Offer other ideas.
Promptly leave.
What Is Abstinence?
Abstinence protects your health and the health
of others.
abstinence Not participating in health-risk
behaviors
Abstinence shows you have self-control.
What Is Abstinence?
Abstaining from
tobacco use…
Protects your lungs and heart.
Abstaining from
alcohol and other drugs…
Protects your body and mind.
Abstaining from
sexual activity…
Protects you against pregnancy and
sexually transmitted diseases.
Lesson 5
What are Conflicts?
The first step in preventing conflicts is understanding
what causes them.
conflicts Disagreements in ideas, beliefs,
or interests
Causes of Conflict
Causes of conflict include:
 Difference of opinion
 Jealousy
 Prejudice
prejudice An opinion or fear formed without
having facts or firsthand knowledge
The Myth of Positive Prejudice
Some kinds of prejudice can seem positive. For example,
saying all French people are good cooks may sound like
a compliment. However, it is really a form of prejudice.
Prejudices assume things about people based on their
race, culture, or the groups they belong to.
Preventing Conflicts
Good communication skills and tolerance are good
tools to help prevent conflicts.
tolerance The ability to accept other
people as they are
Resolving Conflicts
 Know when to walk away
 Refuse to fight
 Don’t take sides
 Seek help if a fight breaks out
Reaching a Compromise
Compromise is an important conflict-resolution
skill.
compromise A skill in which each side gives up something
in order to reach an agreeable solution
A compromise should not go against your values.
Reaching a Compromise
A compromise sometimes requires negotiation.
negotiation The process of talking about a conflict and
deciding how to reach a compromise
Reaching a Compromise
The T.A.L.K. strategy is an effective way of
resolving conflicts.
T
A
L
K
Take a time-out.
Allow each person to tell his or her side.
Let each person ask questions.
Keep brainstorming.
Reaching a Compromise
Some schools offer peer mediation as an option for
conflict-resolution.
peer mediation A process in which a specially trained student
listens to both sides of an argument to help the
people reach a solution
When Conflicts Get Out of Hand
Conflicts that get out of hand can lead to violence.
violence The use of physical force to
harm someone or something
Violence is a growing problem in the United States.
When Conflicts Get Out of Hand
In some communities, there is gang violence.
gang A group whose members often use
violence or take part in criminal activity
Some teens join gangs because of peer pressure, or
they seek a sense of belonging that is missing in their
lives.
Avoiding Violence
Learn and practice
self-control.
Don’t wear clothing
that could be
mistaken for gang
clothing.
Stay clear of
harmful situations.
Do not fight or
threaten others.
If you carry a purse,
carry it across
your chest.
Don’t go to parties
that might include
drugs or alcohol.
If someone has a
weapon, report it.
Be an advocate
of peace.
Use good
communication skills.
Protecting Yourself from Violence
Do not open the
door to anyone you
don’t know.
Keep doors and
windows locked.
Never tell visitors
or callers you are alone.
When going out, tell your
family where you are
going and how you will
get there.
When walking home,
try to walk in pairs, or
with a group.
Stay in familiar
neighborhoods.
Do not enter a building
with a stranger.
If someone tries to
grab you, scream and
run away.
Call 911.
Never get into or go
near a stranger’s car.
ABSTINENCE
ENVIRONMENT
PEERS
ADVOCACY
FRIENDSHIP
PHYSICAL HEALTH
ATTITUDE
GOAL
PREVENTION
BEHAVIOR
HABIT
REFUSAL SKILLS
BODY LANGUAGE
HEALTH
RELATIONSHIP
COMMUNICATION
HEALTH SKILLS
RELIABLE
CONSEQUENCES
HEREDITY
RISK
COOPERATION
LONG-TERM GOAL
SHORT-TERM GOAL
CULTURE
LOYAL
SOCIAL HEALTH
CUMULATIVE RISK
MEDIA
TECHNOLOGY
DECISIONS
MENTAL/EMOTIONAL
HEALTH
VALUES
EMPATHY
PEER PRESSURE
WELLNESS