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董倫賢
話語有殺傷力
 禍從口出
 出口傷人
話語有殺傷力
 惡意抹黑
 製造謊言
 傲慢損人
 引入騙局
 使人自殺
如何面對傷害的話語
7:21 人所說的一切話,你不要放在心上,恐怕聽
見你的僕人咒詛你。
Also, do not take seriously all words which are
spoken, so that you will not hear your servant
cursing you.
7:22 因為你心裡知道,自己也曾屢次咒詛別人。
For you also have realized that you likewise have
many times cursed others.
傳道書Ecclesiastes
莫輕易被激怒 以致掉入陷阱
不輕易發怒的,勝過勇士;治服己心的,強
如取城。
He who is slow to anger is better than the mighty,
And he who rules his spirit, than he who captures
a city.
箴言Proverbs 16:32
星星之火可以燎原
慎言
這樣,舌頭在百體裡也是最小的,卻能說大
話。看哪,最小的火能點著最大的樹林。
So also the tongue is a small part of the body,
and yet it boasts of great things.
See how great a forest is set aflame by such a
small fire!
雅各書James 3:5
節制舌頭
舌頭就是火,在我們百體中,舌頭是個罪惡
的世界,能污穢全身,也能把生命的輪子點
起來,並且是從地獄裡點著的。
And the tongue is a fire, the very world of
iniquity; the tongue is set among our members as
that which defiles the entire body, and sets on
fire the course of our life, and is set on fire by
hell.
雅各書James 3:6
莫成為糊塗的共犯
 輕信謊言
 結黨排他
 閒人閒話
 加油添醋
話語揭露人心
毒蛇的種類!你們既是惡人,怎能說出好話
來呢?因為心裡所充滿的,口裡就說出來。
You brood of vipers, how can you, being evil,
speak what is good? For the mouth speaks out of
that which fills the heart.
馬太福音Matthew 12:34
話語揭露人心
善人從他心裡所存的善就發出善來;惡人從
他心裡所存的惡就發出惡來;因為心裡所充
滿的,口裡就說出來。
The good man out of the good treasure of his
heart brings forth what is good; and the evil man
out of the evil treasure brings forth what is evil;
for his mouth speaks from that which fills his
heart.
路加福音Luke 6:45
話語顯明人的罪性
7:15 從外面進去的不能污穢人,惟有從裡面出來的
乃能污穢人。
there is nothing outside the man which can defile him
if it goes into him; but the things which proceed out of
the man are what defile the man.
馬可福音Mark
注意聽主的話
7:16 有耳可聽的,就應當聽!
If anyone has ears to hear, let him hear.
7:17 耶穌離開眾人,進了屋子,門徒就問他
這比喻的意思。
When he had left the crowd and entered the
house, His disciples questioned Him about
the parable.
馬可福音Mark
排泄物可施肥也當防病從口入
7:18 耶穌對他們說:「你們也是這樣不明白嗎?
豈不曉得凡從外面進入的,不能污穢人,
And He said to them, “Are you so lacking in
understanding also? Do you not understand that
whatever goes into the man from outside cannot
defile him,
7:19 因為不是入他的心,乃是入他的肚腹,又落
到茅廁裡。because it does not go into his heart, but
into his stomach, and is eliminated?”
馬可福音Mark
人心險惡 溢於言表
當保守你心
7:20 又說:「從人裡面出來的,那才能污穢人;
And He was saying, “That which proceeds out of the
man, that is what defiles the man.
7:21 因為從裡面,就是從人心裡,發出惡念、苟合、
For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed the
evil thoughts, fornications,
馬可福音Mark
人心險惡 溢於言表
當保守你心
7:22 偷盜、凶殺、姦淫、貪婪、邪惡、詭詐、淫
蕩、嫉妒、謗讟、驕傲、狂妄(魯莽)。
thefts, murders, adulteries, deeds of coveting and
wickedness, as well as deceit, sensuality, envy,
slander, pride and foolishness (recklessness).
7:23 這一切的惡都是從裡面出來,且能污穢人。」
All these evil things proceed from within and defile
the man.”
馬可福音Mark
話語有創造力
神說:「要有光」,就有了光。
Then God said, “Let there be light”; and there
was light. 創世記 Genesis 1:3
因為他說有,就有,命立,就立。
For He spoke, and it was done;
He commanded, and it stood fast.
詩篇Psalms 33:9
神的話使人活下去
『人活著不是單靠食物,乃是靠神口裏所出
的一切話。』
And Jesus answered him, “It is written, ‘MAN
SHALL NOT LIVE ON BREAD ALONE.’”
路加福音Luke 4:4
主的話是生命之道
『
你們所說的話、就是靈、就是生命。』
It is the Spirit who gives life; the flesh profits
nothing; the words that I have spoken to you are
spirit and are life.
約翰福音John 6:63
多說鼓勵人的話
「你們作父親的,不要惹兒女的氣,恐怕他
們失了志氣。」
Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that
they will not lose heart.
歌羅西書Colossians 3:21
說話要誠實
你們的話,是,就說是;不是,就說不是;
若再多說,就是出於那惡者(或譯:就是從
惡裡出來的)。
But let your statement be, ‘Yes, yes’ or ‘No, no’;
anything beyond these is of evil.
馬太福音Matthew 5:37
奧古斯丁
 聖經乃是為靈性上幼小的人成長而寫的,不
是為夜郎自大的人寫的。
 聖經不是驕傲的人或不成熟的人所能理解。
得救的智慧
並且知道你是從小明白聖經,這聖經能使你
因信基督耶穌,有得救的智慧。
and that from childhood you have known the
sacred writings which are able to give you the
wisdom that leads to salvation through faith
which is in Christ Jesus.
提摩太後書2 Timothy 3:15
培養得救的智慧
3:16 聖經都是 神所默示的,於教訓、督責、使人
歸正、教導人學義都是有益的,
All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for
teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in
righteousness;
3:17 叫屬 神的人得以完全,預備行各樣的善事。
so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for
every good work.
提摩太後書2 Timothy
靈修行道 祝福別人
主耶和華賜我受教者的舌頭,使我知道怎樣
用言語扶助疲乏的人。主每早晨提醒,提醒
我的耳朵,使我能聽,像受教者一樣。
The Lord GOD has given Me the tongue of
disciples, That I may know how to sustain the
weary one with a word.
He awakens Me morning by morning,
He awakens My ear to listen as a disciple.
以賽亞書 50:4
神的話光照自己的盲點
神的道是活潑的,是有功效的,比一切兩刃的劍
更快,甚至魂與靈,骨節與骨髓,都能刺入、剖開,
連心中的思念和主意都能辨明。
For the word of God is living and active and sharper
than any two-edged sword, and piercing as far as the
division of soul and spirit, of both joints and marrow,
and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the
heart.
希伯來書Hebrews 4:12
神鑒察人的肺腑心腸
並且被造的沒有一樣在他面前不顯然的;原
來萬物在那與我們有關係的主眼前,都是赤
露敞開的。
And there is no creature hidden from His
sight, but all things are open and laid bare to
the eyes of Him with whom we have to do.
希伯來書Hebrews 4:13
你有責任勸戒
 應該說得時候就說
 在適當的時候說話
 說話的方法要適當
應該說得時候就說
 我們不應袖手旁觀,一句話也不說,讓他人
自毀一生、或者傷害旁人。
說話的方法要適當
 說話越溫和,收的效果越大。
面對真理才能成長
惟用愛心說誠實話(真理),凡事長進,連
於元首基督。
but speaking the truth in love, we are to grow up
in all aspects into Him who is the head, even
Christ,
以弗所書Ephesians 4:15
在愛的關係中說真理
在和睦或友愛的關係說誠實話才有效,換言
之,竭力在恩典裡,溫柔謙卑地說出真話。
以恩典說實話
和氣(恩典)、好像用鹽
調和、就可知道該怎樣回答各人。
Let your speech always be with grace, as though
seasoned with salt, so that you will know how
you should respond to each person.
歌羅西書Colossians 4:6
說造就人的話使聽者得恩典
污穢的言語一句不可出口,只要隨事說造就
人的好話,叫聽見的人得益處(恩典)。
Let no unwholesome word proceed from your
mouth, but only such a word as is good for
edification (oikodome) according to the need of
the moment, so that it will give grace (charis) to
those who hear.
以弗所書Ephesians 4:29
說合宜的話
一句話說得合宜、就如金蘋果在銀網子裏。
Like apples of gold in settings of silver
Is a word spoken in right circumstances.
箴言Proverbs 25:11
結論
 檢點自己
 不再傷人
 避免害己
 守望禱告
 勤讀聖經
 多作主工
 豐盛生命