Transcript In the World, but Not of the World

In the World, but Not
of the World…
Having a Heart
of Modesty
Outline
• Attitude of the modest
women
• Appearance of the
modest woman
• Allegiance of the modest
woman
Attitude of the modest women
• “women should adorn
themselves in respectable
apparel, with modesty and
self-control.” (1 Tim 2:9
ESV)
– Modesty (or propriety)
– Self Control (Discretion,
Sobriety, Moderation)
Attitude of the modest women
• What statement do your clothes
make about your heart? There is
an inseparable relationship
between the two.
• As you shop for clothes, are you
thinking about modesty and selfcontrol? Do you take the Lord to
the store with you?
• In choosing clothing to put on in
the morning, whose attention
and approval do you desire?
Appearance of the modest woman
• “women should adorn themselves in
respectable apparel… not with braided hair
and gold or pearls or costly attire” (1 Tim 2:9)
• "Do not let your adornment be merely
outward--arranging the hair, wearing gold, or
putting on fine apparel-- 4 rather let it be the
hidden person of the heart, with the
incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet
spirit, which is very precious in the sight of
God." (1 Peter 3:3-4)
Appearance of the modest woman
• Was there a man today that desired to come and
worship God, but was distracted by what your
clothing and your body?
• How often do you allow others to evaluate your
clothing (your father, husband, or other godly
women)?
• Is there someone you need to show concern for
when it comes to their clothing, a particular
outfit?
• Are you noticed more for your clothing or for
your good works? What is more eye-catching
about you, your clothing or your character?
Allegiance of the modest woman
• What motivated Paul to say
these things to the church?
– vs. 1-7
• It is all about:
– The Gospel
– The Glory of God
Allegiance of the modest woman
• How do you reflect the
glorious light of the gospel
to others?
• Has the gospel transformed
your heart, your apparel,
and your works?
• If it hasn’t, it has the power
to do so!
Concluding Remarks…
• Seek personal feedback on your attire from
the godly men and women in your life.
• Remember, modesty is first and foremost a
matter of the heart, not the wardrobe.
• Faithfully pursue the imperishable beauty of a
gentle and quiet spirit. (1 Peter 3:4)
• Let your good works outshine your outward
appearance. (1 Timothy 2:10)
• Dress for the glory of God. (1 Corinthians
10:31)