Transcript FRIENDSHIP

FRIENDSHIP
COMPANION
FEELINGS
DEPEND
ACCEPT
COOPERATE
APPRECIATE
COMPROMISE
TRUST
LISTENER
SECRET
MEMORIES
A friend is someone who likes you.
A friend is someone who…
 Is honest
 Likes to spend time with you
 Is nice and kind
 You can count on
 Shares
 Listens
 Can give love
 Likes people
It’s important to have friends to…
 Care about you
 Listen
 Support you
 Prevent loneliness
 Help you
A Good Friend Does Not…
 Tell lies
 Hurt you or others
 Gossip
 Ignore you
The secret to having a lot of friends is
liking people.
You can show people you like them by:
 Smiling
 Talking about their interests
 Being a good listener
 Sharing with them
 Telling them how you feel
 Doing things together
To have friends, it helps to focus on others
more than on yourself.
 Call the person by name
often.
 Give sincere
compliments.
 Accept the person the
way they are.
 Apologize when you are
wrong.
 Respect their feelings.
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 Conversational skills … what are they?
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Starting a conversation
Taking turns
Asking questions
Answering questions
Being relevant
Repairing
Ending conversations
Listening
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 Body Language … what is it?
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Gesture
Posture
Distance
Facial expression
Touch
Personal appearance
Eye contact
fidgeting
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 Assertiveness … What is it?
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Standing up for yourself
Making suggestions
Refusing
Disagreeing
Complaining
Apologizing
Requesting explanations
Expressing feelings
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Communication Skills
Friendship
Bullying
Pick up on “red flag”
signals
Read Warnings, Hints, In
between the lines to stop
undesirable behavior
Anticipate Consequences
Respect the “bubble”
Pressure
Respect Differences
Breaking the Law
Trustworthy
“Chicken” Factor
Think Safety First
Loyal
“Dare” Factor
Body Language and
sending Messages.
Kind/helpful
Uncomfortable
Listener
Understanding
SPLIT IN GROUPS AND DISCUSS:
 If You Find Out That Your Friend Spread
Unwanted Rumor about You, How Do You
Handle The Situation?
 If Your Friend Pressure You To Do Something
Against Your Will, What Would You Do?
Now we’re going to play a fun game
called “Friendship Bingo.”
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Fill in the center box with your name and
favorite activity.
When I give the signal to start, find someone in
this group who fits the description in each box.
Ask him/her to sign his/her name in the box.
Try to find a different person for each box.
I will give you a signal when it is time to return
to your seats.
FRIENDSHIP
wrap up
1. RESPECT EACH OTHERS' DIFFERENCES
2. RECOGNIZE EACH OTHERS' STRENGTHS
3. COMPROMISE AND MEET HALF WAY
4. CONTROL YOUR ANGER/FEELINGS
5. SEPARATE YOURSELF TILL YOU CALM DOWN
6. IF IT BECOMES RECURRENT, ANNOYING,
THREATENING, HURTING... REPORT IT!