Transcript Attending & Listening

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Attending
&
Listening
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Aims:
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• To differentiate between counselling
and counselling skills
• To discuss the importance of
attending and active listening
• To define triads
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OBJECTIVES:
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• Recognise the difference between
counselling and counselling skills
• Demonstrate the skills of active
listening and attending
• Identify the three components of triad
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Attending- Actively being with
the other person
• “ Attending is the act of truly focusing
on the other person. It involves
consciously making ourselves aware of
what the other person is saying and of
what they are trying to communicate”
• Bernard (1989)
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3 levels of attending
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• Non-verbal communication
• Micro skills
• Social emotional presence
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Non Verbal Communication
(NVC’s)
• What do we mean by
this?
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Body Language•
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Voice
Touch
Expressions
Eye contact
Proximity
Posture
Gestures
Clothes
Environment
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Exercise
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In pairs discuss the following
Identify the body language of someone who is
SAD
HAPPY
AFRAID
ANGRY
Write down your answers on the flip chart to
discuss
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Micro skills
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• Sit Squarely
• Open Position
• Lean Slightly Forward
• Eye contact
• Relax!
• (see Egan Handout)
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Social Emotional Presence
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• Core Elements:
Acceptance
Warmth
Genuiness
Empathy
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Finally…
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something to think about...
‘Helpers
out of touch with
their own feelings are
unlikely to resonate and
communicate their clients’
feelings accurately’
(Egan 2001)
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