Transcript Communication

Communication
PIXAR – One Man Band
ELEMENTS OF EFFECTIVE
COMMUNICATION
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Listening, TWO-WAY communication.
Congruent body language.
ASSERTIVENESS: saying what you think and feel in
a POLITE, constructive way. Using effective
communication to get what you want.
Use “I” statements, “When you , I feel
_______________“. Then assertively ask for what
you want.
Appropriate SELF-DISCLOSURE - share personal
thoughts and feelings.
The two most essential elements of
any good relationship:
COMMUNICATION
2. TRUST
1.
BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATION
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Big and Rich - I Wanna Talk About Me
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We talk about your work, how your boss is a jerk
We talk about your Church and your head when it
hurts
We talk about the troubles you've been having with
your brother
About your daddy and your mother and your crazy
ex lover
We talk about your friends and the places that
you've been
We talk about your skin and the dimples on your
chin
The polish on your toes and the run in your hose
And God knows we're gonna talk about your
clothes
You know talking about you makes me smile
But every once in a while
I wanna talk about me
Wanna talk about I
Wanna talk about number one
 Oh my, me, mine
What I think, what I like, what I know, what I
want, what I see
I like talking about you, you, you, you, usually
but occasionally
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me
We talk about your dreams and we talk about
your schemes
Your high school team and your moisturizer
creme
We talk about your nanna up in Muncie, Indiana
We talk about your grandma down in Alabama
We talk about your guys of every shape and size
The one's that you despise and the one's you
idolize
We talk about your heart, about your brains and
your smarts
And your medical charts and when you start
Oh, me
You know talking about you makes me
grin
But every now and then
I wanna talk about me
Wanna talk about I
Wanna talk about number one
Oh my, me, mine
What I think, what I like, what I know,
what I want, what I see
I like talking about you, you, you, you,
usually, but occasionally
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me
Me, me, me, me, me
I wanna talk about me
Me, me, me, me, me
You, you, you, you you, you, you, you,
you, you, you, you, you
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me
Wanna talk about I
Wanna talk about number one
Oh my, me, mine
What I think, what I like, what I know,
what I want, what I see
I like talking about you, you, you, you,
usually, but occasionally
I wanna talk about me
I wanna talk about me
Advice for Women About Men
Our Surface
Understanding
What That Means
in Practice
 “Men need respect”
 Men would rather Feel
 “Men are insecure”
unloved than inadequate
and disrespected.
 Despite their “in control”
exterior, men often feel
like impostors and are
insecure that their
inadequacies will be
discovered.
Advice for Women About Men
Our Surface
Understanding
What That Means
in Practice
 “Men are providers”
 Even if you personally made
 “Men want more sex”
enough income to support
the family’s lifestyle, it would
make no difference to the
mental burden he feels to
provide.
 Your sexual desire for your
husband profoundly affects
his sense of well-being and
confidence in all areas of his
life.
Advice for Women About Men
Our Surface
Understanding
What That Means
in Practice
 “Men are visual”
 Even happily married men
 “Men are unromantic
clods”
struggle with being pulled
toward live and recollected
images of other women.
 Actually, most men enjoy
romance (sometimes in
different ways) and want to
be romantic—but hesitate
because they doubt they
can succeed.
Advice for Women About Men
Our Surface
Understanding
What That Means
in Practice
 “Men care about appearance”
 ‘‘You don’t need to be a size
3 but your man does need to
see you making the effort to
take care of and he will take
on significant cost or
inconvenience in order to
support you.
Advice for Men About Women
Advice for Men About Women
Advice for Men About Women
Advice for Men About Women
Advice for Men About Women
Advice for Men About Women