Transcript CJ 333 Family and Domestic Violence Unit 4

CJ 333 Family and
Domestic Violence
Unit 4
Dr. Lois A. Wims
What is the Cycle of Violence in
Domestic Relationships?
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Often attributed to Lenore Walker
Not a linear process
She found ‘cycle’ to be more apt
Tension building (sources of tension?)
Time periods variable
Even violent relationships aren’t “just”
violent…
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Outbreak of violence
Followed by what’s often called “the honeymoon
period”
Overcompensation/ or compensating
Apologies, promises to do better, candy, flowers,
gifts
But also sometimes rationalization, minimizing the
harm, denying responsibility, shifting the ‘blame’
The Cycle of Domestic Violence
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Could be days, weeks, months, years
Without interruption, though, often followed
by
Tension building phase again
Outbreak of violence again
The question always asked
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By researchers
By police, courts, agencies
“Why does she stay?”
Is this an interesting question…sure?
Should it be our first question…hmmm?
But ok, why?
Possible answers
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Financial dependence
Emotional dependence or co dependency
Learned helplessness
Family or cultural teachings
Children’s stability
For the good times
Drug or alcohol issues
Another really good question:
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Why does he batter?